Are You Tried of Being Tired?
Nobody likes divorce, but maybe you’ve convinced yourself that it is better than continuing in a broken marriage. Maybe the desperation of not being sad now is overpowering the hope of ever again finding happiness together. Well, you wouldn’t be alone. Over 50% of first marriages and 60% of second marriages end in divorce. But wait…what the divorce statistic doesn’t tell you is the real and long-term effect that divorce has on your children and your future relationships. What if there really was hope? What if your marriage could be not only tolerable, but far better than it’s ever been before? Before you break up the family and try to pick up the pieces, consider not only evaluating the long term effects, but also the possibility that there could be a better way.
There is a better way. And the good news is that we can help you! You just need to be willing to let us.
After a long weekend with our team you will leave in a healthier and renewed state. GUARANTEED. We have been working with couples over the last 20 years in exactly this situation. There is HOPE. How do we know that? Well, it is because we see it happen every month. Our program brings hope to even the most hopeless situations.
We also instill hope for families where the marriage should not continue. Relationships should always end in a healthy way, from a healthy place, for the sake of all family members as well as yourself. We can help you get to a place of better personal health for everyone’s benefit moving forward.
Not every marriage can or should be saved, but every individual can and should be emotionally healthy.
Common reasons couples attend
Are you really hearing each other?Good communication is the cornerstone to building and maintaining any healthy relationship. It creates a sense of intimacy that can be shared throughout a lifetime, and it’s nearly impossible for any relationship to thrive without it. Whether you would like to improve your conflict resolution or experience a deeper connection with your spouse, you can achieve it through communication. Thankfully, it can be learned! We can help you develop your communication skills so that you and your partner can establish and sustain a relationship filled with closeness, love and respect.
Is your anger out of control?Do you find yourself or your partner snapping? Escalating unreasonably quickly? Do you find yourself or your partner has a pattern of defensiveness, passive-aggressive or critical behavior? You could be dealing with unresolved anger issues. Anger is a powerful emotion that can keep you from happiness and destroy your relationships. Uncontrolled anger can highjack your conversations, prevent you from resolving issues and taint otherwise beautiful life experiences. We work extensively with couples struggling with anger problems, and we can help you resolve the underlying issues and move towards more loving and fulfilling relationships.
Will I always hurt like this?Life can be absolutely beautiful, but very few of us make it through without some scrapes and bruises along the way. Whether you were hurt in a prior relationship, forced to live with unfulfilled needs, or life threw you a curveball from which you can’t seem to recover, you might be trying to get through with the pain of an open wound. You might have a burden that you carry the weight of daily. Maybe it’s something that you’ve never admitted to another person, or even to yourself. Whatever it was that wounded you, you don’t have to walk through life this way. We can help you identify the root causes of what’s holding you down, and guide you through a healing process to reclaim the vibrant and fulfilling life that you desire.
How do we move forward after an affair?Nothing rocks a world in quite the same way as the discovery of an affair does. It feels like a punch to the gut. Like a world falling apart. Where do you possibly go from here? How do you move forward? Moving through a betrayal is in no way easy, but we can walk with you and help guide you through the process. You may choose to stay together or separate, but we can help you to make that critical decision from a healthy place rather than a wounded place.
What if I don’t want to forgive? What if I can’t?We tend to think of forgiveness as something done on behalf of a person who wronged us, and it can be that… but it’s also so much more. Forgiveness also can be for you. Forgiveness is about freeing yourself from the tremendous pain and overbearing weight that you’ve been carrying since you were hurt. Forgiveness in undoubtedly hard, but when it’s done truly, it can be immensely powerful to the point of feeling miraculous. It’s really about allowing yourself to heal and move forward in freedom — even if confronting or reconciling with those that hurt you isn’t an option. We can help you understand the forgiveness process as it focuses internally on your health and future, instead of dwelling externally on others. We can help you let go and be free.
But the real impact is not on you or your new spouse, but the children that are caught in the middle.
Real People, Real Stories
Listen to stories of couples that have attended
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