In the end of 2012 I was frustrated, turned to my wife and said “Let’s just get a divorce”. She agreed. We had 2 year old and 3 year old girls and two teenage girls at home. After lawyer meetings and finalizing our divorce paperwork it was time to sign. That is when God spoke into my heart and I reached out to my wife Julie who said she was willing to do what we needed to do to save our marriage. Through Friends Church in Yorba Linda I was introduced to Ron Konkin who agreed to meet with me and then he met with both me and Julie. Ron continued to show what an amazing and caring man he was by continuing to call me and check up on me although I had not attended Relationship Lifeline. His heart and compassion was so evident and touched my heart. I knew that we needed to attend the program and so Julie and I attended in June of 2013. WOW! I was completely transformed.
I knew I needed to be a better husband, dad, friend, boss, leader and just a better “me”. This experience blew me and my wife away. It was easy for me to be skeptical but my perspective on life, people, family, most “everything” is so much different now. Today I come back every month to volunteer to be a part of watching lives transformed. Today I am changed, today I am blessed, and my future is bright! Thanks!
Paul Scarborough "renewed" with Julie Scarborough June 10, 2015